I've been thinking a lot about how we learn. And more and more I find value in experiential knowledge (things you learn by doing) over academic knowledge (things you learn by reading). For example…
- I learned how to skydive from someone who has skydived thousands of times.
- I've talked with parents about their experience raising their kids – rather than reading a book about raising kids.
- While preparing for a marathon I read a ton of blog posts about running and the advice I really appreciated was from people who actually ran marathons.
- I want to learn computer science from someone who has participated in computer science projects. Not someone who just repeats what their professor told them.
- I practice acro yoga and when I want to learn a new pose I do so with people who have done those poses before – not with people who just read about them.
- When I moved to Denver I decided to move and live in the city for a year and see how it went. Worst case scenario I would move back to Wisconsin. I looked up all of the stats before moving (crime rate, weather, cost of living, etc.) but ultimately I just couldn't understand that information until I actually experienced it.
You can consume a thousand articles, blog posts, books, videos, and conversations with people about a topic. But some topics are so big that you really can't understand it until you live it – like moving to Denver. I could pull up every metric about Denver (and I did make a spreadsheet), but I could never imagine what it's like living downtown in a big city versus living in Green Bay, Wisconsin (a much smaller city with very different values).

Denver is surrounded by gorgeous mountains
This isn't to say academic knowledge is useless. It's incredibly useful. Using academic knowledge I realized the Denver has way more sunny days than Portland & Seattle which is why Denver made it to the top of the list. Now, I can't fully imagine what it's like living in Denver surrounded by mountains but I was at least able to narrow down the list of cities based on some really useful data. And from there I had to experience Denver to know if it was the right choice for me.






